How we relate to it

No matter how much we like or dislike, or are hurt or maimed by a thought, action or event,

our attitudes do not colour the event itself, only our relationship to it.

As this is so, no matter how much we stomp or shout or cajole or whine, reality is what it is.

Anzan Hoshin Roshi, Cutting the Cat into One

Not interested in the contents

The turning of the mind

away from the objective content of experience

towards the source or essence from which it has arisen

is the essence of meditation or prayer

Rupert Spira

The place in which you live

As Martin Buber saw it – writing at his best near the turn of the last century – the world of ordinary days “affords” us that precise association with God that redeems both us and our speck of the world.

God entrusts and allots to everyone an area to redeem: this creased and feeble life, “the world in which you live, just as it is and not otherwise”.

Annie Dillard, For the Time Being:

The unknown

Leave the door open for the unknown, the door into the dark.

That’s where the most important things come from,

the things that break your sticks and change your life.


Rebecca Solnit,  A Field Guide to Getting Lost

Remember

The Feast of All Souls when we remember those gone before us:

I know that humans want and need exactly the same thing:

to belong, to feel safe and respected.

I also know that we don’t live long.

And that dancing almost always turns out to be a good idea.

Anne Lamott , post on X

Sunday quote: everyday life

The Feast of All Saints

All of the places of our lives are sanctuaries; some of them just happen to have steeples.

And all of the people in our lives are saints; it is just that some of them have day jobs and most will never have feast days named for them

Robert Benson, Between the Dreaming and the Coming true