A Lesson in Letting Things Be

Things are as they are.

Looking out into the universe at night,

we make no comparisons between right and wrong stars,

nor between well and badly arranged constellations.

Alan Watts

Small acts

We are here to change the world

with small acts of thoughtfulness done daily

rather than with one great breakthrough

Harold S. Kushner

thinking shifts

We cannot always control events, but we author the meaning assigned to them

I do not fix problems

I fix my thinking.

Then problems fix themselves.

Louise Hay

The real cause of problems is not life itself.

Its the commotion the mind makes about life that really cause problems

Michael A.Singer, The Untethered Soul

no matter how dark

No matter how dire the circumstances, we can have confidence in life’s flow and in our own deep seated goodness.

No matter how dark,

the hand always knows the way to the mouth. 

Saying of the Idoma ethnic group, Nigeria.

Making room to breathe

The first day of Lent and of Ramadan

Our culture accelerates. Deadlines, notifications, reputational anxiety, comparisons – all creating a sense of tightness. What would it mean to live one day this week unhurried?

There is a way to live that is spacious and unhurried,

a way that allows the heart to breathe

Wayne Muller, How, Then, Shall We Live? 

A gentle world

Maggie and I are doing our best. Our parents did their best. Everyone is doing their best.

What if we assumed that about each other?

What a gentle world it would be.

Elizabeth Lesser,  Marrow: A Love Story