The moment that Teijitsu, 18th century abbess of Hakujuan, near Eiheiji, Japan, learned to let go.
She saw that all phenomena arose, abided, and fell away. She saw that even knowing this arose, abided, and fell away. Then she knew there was nothing more than this, no ground, nothing to lean on, stronger than the cane she held. Nothing to lean upon at all, and no one leaning… And she opened the clenched fist in her mind and let go, and fell, into the midst of everything.
Sallie Tisdale, The Women of the Way: Discovering 2,500 years of Buddhist Wisdom
This is what the things can teach us:
to fall patiently, to trust our heaviness
Even a bird has to do that before he can fly.
Rilke, Book of Hours, II, 16