No feeling is final

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Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror.
Just keep going. No feeling is final.
Don’t let yourself lose me.

Nearby is the country they call life.
You will know it by its seriousness.

Give me your hand.

Rilke, Book of Hours, I

photo April Killingsworth

Keeping our deepest self in mind

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No matter what we may be doing at a given moment,

we must not forget that is has a bearing upon our everlasting self which is poetry

Matsuo Bashō (1644 – 1694)

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A genuine life

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How much of the day are you aware – just basically aware of what life is presenting – rather than being lost in waking sleep, in being identified with whatever you’re doing, almost as if you didn’t exist?How much of your energy is used to fortify a particular self-image, or to simply please others in order to gain approval, instead of devoting your energy to living a genuine life?

Ezra Bayda, At Home in the Muddy Water

Everyday

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It is our interest in our experiences that enables us to become insightful, understanding and wise regarding them…By looking at our mundane and unacceptable experiences with an interested and open mind, insight, understanding and investigation can actually be fostered.

Jason Siff

Letting it blow through

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Like everyone I’d rather not experience the undercurrents of life, but the challenge is not to shun them, but to accept that over a lifetime will have our share of them. Avoiding the difficult aspects of living only stunts our fullness. When we do this we are like a tree that never fully opens to the sky. And dwelling on our difficulties only prevents them from going on their way. When we do this, we are like a great tree that nets the storm in its leaves. The storm by its nature wants to move on and the trees’ grace is that it has no hands. Our blessing and curse is to learn and relearn when to reach and to hold, and when to put our hands in our pockets.

Mark Nepo, The Book Of Awakening

Acceptance and peace

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Pleasant conditions change into unpleasant ones, and unpleasant conditions eventually become pleasant. We should just keep this awareness of impermanence and be at peace with the way things are, not demanding that they be otherwise.  But most of all we should be at peace with ourselves – that is the big lesson to learn in life. It is really hard to be at peace with oneself. I find that most people have a lot of self-aversion. It is much better to be at peace with our own bodies and minds than anything else, and not demand that they be perfect, that we be perfect, or that everything be good. We can be at peace with the good and the bad.

Ajahn Sumedho

Photo Harald Hoyer