
The true purpose [of Zen] is to see things as they are,
to observe things as they are,
and to let everything go as it goes…
Shunryu Suzuki roshi, Zen Mind, Beginners Mind
Most days we will encounter some things that are “unwanted” even if only bad weather
Even now,
decades after,
I wash my face with cold water –
Not for discipline, nor memory, nor the icy, awakening slap,
but to practice
choosing
to make the unwanted wanted.
Jane Hirshfield, A Cedary Fragrance. In her twenties, she lived in a Zen monastery, with no electricity or hot water.
If we’ve been eating a regular meal of resentment toward our spouse, our boss, our parents, or “the world,” the boat’s going to come back around in the next minute because it’s accustomed to us filling our plate. But we must be able to ask and to discover, “Who was I before I resented my spouse? And even before that?”
This is the primary way we learn to live in our True Self, where we are led by a foundational “yes,” not by the petty push backs of “no.”
Richard Rohr