…or failing to notice

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The range of what we think and do is limited by what we fail to notice.

And because we fail to notice that we fail to notice there is little we can do to change

until we notice how failing to notice shapes our thoughts and deeds.

R.D. Laing

Just being fully present

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Here it is – right now.

Start thinking about it and you miss it.

Huang Po, Chinese Zen Master,  died 850

Conscious breathing

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Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky.

Conscious breathing is my anchor.

Thích Nhất Hạnh, Stepping into Freedom

Relaxing

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The things we really need come to us only as gifts, and in order to receive them as gifts, we have to be open. In order to be open we have to renounce ourselves, in a sense we have to die to our image of ourselves, our autonomy, our fixation upon our self-willed destiny. We have to be able to relax the psychic and spiritual cramp which knots us in the painful, vulnerable, helpless “I” that is all we know of ourselves.

Thomas Merton, Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander

Sunday Quote: what we miss

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The whole of life lies in the verb “seeing”

Teilhard de Chardin, Jesuit theologian and palaeontologist

Making every moment count

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Mindfulness meditation is a wonderful tool for making each day, each moment of our life count. Paradoxically this is achieved by not doing more, but by doing less. We may feel that we need to do the things  have to be done faster so that we have time for doing more things. Mindfulness practice goes the other way. I may need to go to the store to get a carton of milk. The way to make the experience more satisfying is not doing it as fast as possible while thinking of other things, but to enjoy the walk to the store by paying attention. This way, we make every moment count. We are not sacrificing the means for the goal. Otherwise, our day becomes a series of dry chores.

Joseph Emet, Buddha’s Book of Sleep