Make time

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What is balance in a society whose skewing of time has it totally off-balance? … In the first place balance for us is obviously not a mathematical division of the day. For most of us our days simply do not divide that easily. In the second place, balance for us is clearly not equivalence. Because I have done forty hours of work this week does nt mean that I will have forty hours of prayer and leisure. What it does mean, however, is that somehow I must make time for both. I must make time or die inside.

Joan Chittister, Wisdom Distilled from the Daily

The deeper meaning to work

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The other day I  had a small problem with the heating and water system so I called a plumber. Like many people he was interested to hear of my impressions of Ireland since I returned. I told him that they were mostly positive and of the changes I had noticed. He said that he felt the time of the economic boom in Ireland had shifted many people’s focus onto  more materialistic aspects of life, and that many people had “lost their heads” during that time.  A lot of people tend to associate greater wealth with a less caring attitude, which may or may not be the case. It is true that an economic model focused just on growth will not automatically lead to compassionate or sustainable, inclusive,  development. However, what struck me more is the need for a framework of values which Ireland traditionally had and which it has moved away from, sometimes with good reason. However, replacing them with an alternative consumer framework may not be the best solution.  As this quote says, our work needs to refer to some overall direction or else it risks losing it capacity to nourish all aspects of the person and society:

The outward harmony  that we desire between our economy and the world depends finally upon an inward harmony between our own hearts and the originating spirit that is in the life of all creatures…We can grow good wheat and make good bread only if we understand that we do not live by bread alone.

Wendell Berry

The strength from within

Each person must learn to relate to external people and situations. But it is equally important, and even more urgent, that he learn to relate to his own self. Until he learns to confront the motives, desires and unlived possibilities of his own secret heart, he can never be complete within or genuinely fulfilled. That power within, which constantly urges us to experience our unlived possibilities and values, is the most awesome force in human life. For ultimate meaning must be found within: A man must relate to the outer world from the strength of inner wholeness, not search outside for a meaning that he finds, at last, only in the solitary pathways of his own soul.

Robert Johnson, We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love

Intention

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Breathing in, breathing out, feeling resentful, feeling happy, being able to drop it, not being able to drop it, eating our food, brushing our teeth, walking, sitting — whatever we’re doing could be done with one intention. That intention is that we want to wake up, we want to ripen our compassion, and we want to ripen our ability to let go, we want to realize our connection with all beings. Everything in our lives has the potential to wake us up or to put us to sleep. Allowing it to awaken us is up to us.

Pema Chodron, Comfortable with Uncertainty

I had lunch yesterday in the coffee shop run by the Camphill Community  in the lovely village of Kilcullen, County Kildare, about 25 miles south of Dublin.  It was about 10 years since I was last  there  but I found it as inspiring and nourishing –  in every sense – as before.  The Camphill communities focus on creating meaningful and inclusive lives for people with intellectual disabilities and special needs, where everyone contributes at the level of their ability, and where the contribution of everyone is valued. As the Henri Nouwen quote this morning reminds us, our value resides more in what we are, even though we frequently seek it in what we do.

The apt name of the coffee shop is the Gaelic “An Tearmann” which means “Refuge” or “Sanctuary” and it raises funds that support the community living and working near Kilcullen as they work towards creating an environment for healing and development. I was struck by some words on the front of the menu, where they thanked visitors for their support in the creation of an “intentional community”. It reminded me that every moment, even lunch or a cup of coffee, can be made more intentional or conscious, and that we are challenged to reflect on the overall direction or intention of our lives, and what values our choices support.

Sunday quote: In darkness and silence

There is a place

where words are born of silence.

Rumi

The secret signature

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If you live the life you love, you will receive shelter and blessings.  Sometimes the great famine of blessings in and around us derives from the fact that we are not living the life we love; rather, we are living the life that is expected of us.  We have fallen out of rhythm with the secret signature and light of our own nature.

John O’Donohue