This is the way it is

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Advice from two great teachers from the Thai tradition, where I find myself mainly at home.

Ajahn Sumedho has had a huge influence on the development of meditation practice in the West. Here he refers to an observation made by one of the great figures in Thai Theravada Buddhist practice, summarizing neatly the whole of mindfulness practice. Its an observation which is one of my favourites and points us towards the right attitude.

That being said, it’s not so easy to work with when circumstances are challenging, or, you know, those evenings when the heart just feels a bit lost.

Buddhadasa Bhikkhu said, “If there was to be a useful inscription to put on a medallion around your neck it would be ‘This is the way it is’.”

This reflection helps us to contemplate: wherever we happen to be, whatever time and place, good or bad, ‘This is the way it is.’

It is a way of bringing an acceptance into our minds,

a noting rather than a reaction.

Ajahn Sumedho, The Way it is

Not dependent on everything going right

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Joy is that kind of happiness that does not depend on what happens.

David Steindal Rast, born 1926, Catholic monk,  founder of  A Network for Grateful Living

photo yumi kimura

Cheerfulness

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A post for the made-up “Blue Monday”, the day in the year,  they tell us,  we are most likely to feel gloomy.

Perhaps the best advice for our physical and mental health this week, as we bring our inner self to work with whatever outward situation we find ourselves in…. and not from a modern self-help book. 

A cheerful heart is good medicine

Proverbs 17:22

photo david shankbone

Sunday quote: Not resisting

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Surrender comes when you no longer ask,

“Why is this happening to me?

Eckhart Tolle

photo enrique eliud

Courage

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Whatever you’re meant to do, do it now.

The conditions are always impossible

Doris Lessing

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Not worth getting excited over

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A lot of what we hold on to as important- even just a week or two ago – turns out to be, like everything else, impermanent, arising and passing away according to conditions.

I have already lost touch with a couple of people I used to be

Joan Didion, On Keeping a Notebook

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