leaves in the wind

Easy to understand this teaching these windy days.

When you encounter difficulties, the feelings and stories that arise in reaction are just that, feelings and stories. They are whirlwinds of confusion, based not in what is happening now but in deeply held beliefs about you and your relationship to the world.

Let them swirl – leaves in the wind.

Sometimes you fall back into them and lose touch with the present, but a moment of recognition always comes. Right then, come back to your body, come back to your breath, and rest. The confusion, the stories, and the feelings are still there. They continue to swirl, but you are not lost in them.

Gradually, you come to see that what you took to be “you” is only a pattern, a way of reacting that has repeated itself over and over again. When the pattern no longer controls you, the energy caught up in it is freed, and awareness becomes clear and open.

Ken McLeod, Wake Up to Your Life: Discovering the Buddhist Path of Attention .

evening rituals

Take a shower, wash off the day. Drink a glass of water. Make the room dark. Lie down and close your eyes.

Notice the silence. Notice your heart. Still beating. Still fighting. You made it, after all. You made it, another day. And you can make it one more.

You’re doing just fine.

Charlotte Eriksson, American author

it too will leave

Ripeness is
what falls away with ease.

Not only the heavy apple, the pear,
but also the dried brown strands
of autumn iris from their core.


To let your body
love this world
that gave itself to your care
in all of its ripeness, with ease,
and will take itself from you
in equal ripeness and ease,
is also harvest.


And however sharply
you are tested —
this sorrow, that great love —
it too will leave on that clean knife

Jane Hirshfield,

Calming

Calming and stilling are the willingness to commit to just being wholeheartedly present in one moment at a time,

to commit to one breath,

to commit to the sense of our feet touching the ground.

To know this, we begin to train the mind.


Christina Feldman, Blindfolding Mara

Security

When fear makes your choices for you, no security measures on earth will keep the things you dread from finding you.

But if you can avoid avoidance – if you can choose to embrace experiences out of passion, enthusiasm, and a readiness to feel whatever arises – then nothing, nothing in all this dangerous world, can keep you from being safe.

Martha Beck

Just take one step at a time

The Ancient Desert Fathers, when they were disconsolate and without hope, would repeat one word, over and over, as a kind of soothing mantra.

And the word wasn’t “Jesus” or “God” or “Love.”

The word was “Today.” It kept them where they needed to be.

Gregory Boyle, Tattoos on the Heart