too much

As the winter solstice approaches, animals and the rest of nature turn towards slowing down and saving, rather than, spending energy. This was echoed in the understanding of Advent as a time for simplification. This is somewhat removed from the excesses which are promoted as being necessary for happiness in the modern celebration of the Season.

We have known for a long time that poverty can destroy the body and render the soul deaf and insensitive. What has yet to be learned is that overabundance of things and enjoyments also devours the soul. An appropriate relation to things, one that does not overwhelm the senses, cannot grow when things are ever present for our consumption. Overabundance destroys the intensity of people and their capacity to enjoy and to be related.

In cultures where asceticism developed and was practiced, people knew that one can suffocate when every option is a readily available one. Without self-limitation, without fixed boundaries – like those given in creation between day and night, summer and winter, being young and growing old – life loses its humanness. Asceticism means to renounce at least for periods of time the options that present themselves. In bygone cultures of poverty there were times for fasting, waking, withdrawing, and keeping silence. Perhaps people believed that life itself could be saved by giving up parts of it.

Dorothee Soelle,  The Silent Cry : Mysticism and Resistance

It’s our choice

Do we relate to our circumstances with bitterness or with openness?

This is our choice in every moment

Pema Chodron

Living simply

I taught myself to live simply and wisely,

to look at the sky and pray to God,

and to wander long before evening to tire my superfluous worries.

Anna Akhmatova, 1889 – 1966 I Taught Myself to Live Simply

The light is greater

La festa di Santa Lucia. Today is the feastday of Saint Lucia of Syracuse (283–304) a martyr revered for her courage in secretly bringing food to those who were hiding from persecution in the catacombs under Rome. Legend tells us that she wore a crown of candles to light her way so that her hands were free to carry the food.

Before the calendar was changed, her feast fell on the shortest day of the year, the Winter Solstice. It is still a big celebration in Nordic countries, marking the turn in winter and the return of light

All night my heart makes its way
however it can over the rough ground
of uncertainties, but only until night
meets and then is overwhelmed by
morning, the light deepening, the
wind easing and just waiting, as I
too wait (and when have I ever been
disappointed?) for redbird to sing.

Mary Oliver, A Thousand Mornings

let your preference go

I clearly remember deciding that from now on,

if life was unfolding in a certain way,

and the only reason I was resisting it was of a personal preference,

I would let go of the preference

and let life be in charge.

Michael A. Singer

Watch with patience

Waiting and patience are two of the main themes of Advent

Let the apple ripen
on the branch
beyond your need
to take it down.

Wait longer
than you would,

go against yourself,
find the pale nobility
of quiet that ripening
demands;
watch with patience
as the silhouette emerges
and the leaves fall
;
see it become
a solitary roundness
against a greying sky,
let winter come
and the first
frost threaten,
and then wake
one morning
to see the breath
of winter
has haloed
its redness
with light.

David Whyte, Winter Apple [extract]