The deeper meaning to work

wheat and the jura June 25

The other day I  had a small problem with the heating and water system so I called a plumber. Like many people he was interested to hear of my impressions of Ireland since I returned. I told him that they were mostly positive and of the changes I had noticed. He said that he felt the time of the economic boom in Ireland had shifted many people’s focus onto  more materialistic aspects of life, and that many people had “lost their heads” during that time.  A lot of people tend to associate greater wealth with a less caring attitude, which may or may not be the case. It is true that an economic model focused just on growth will not automatically lead to compassionate or sustainable, inclusive,  development. However, what struck me more is the need for a framework of values which Ireland traditionally had and which it has moved away from, sometimes with good reason. However, replacing them with an alternative consumer framework may not be the best solution.  As this quote says, our work needs to refer to some overall direction or else it risks losing it capacity to nourish all aspects of the person and society:

The outward harmony  that we desire between our economy and the world depends finally upon an inward harmony between our own hearts and the originating spirit that is in the life of all creatures…We can grow good wheat and make good bread only if we understand that we do not live by bread alone.

Wendell Berry

Light after darkness

dawn33

It was a nice bright morning here in Ireland and it is always heartening when we see the sun beginning to brighten the sky. So, here are another few words from Mary Oliver, on how darkness, in different senses, can give way to light, and how nature can soothe the spirit. Often at night the fixing side of our mind gets stuck in some problems or challenges we face and it can seem very dark. The light of morning or of nature can sometimes put things into perspective:

All night my heart makes its way
however it can over the rough ground
of uncertainties, but only until night
meets and then is overwhelmed by
morning, the light deepening, the
wind easing and just waiting, as I
too wait (and when have I ever been
disappointed?) for redbird to sing.

Mary Oliver, A Thousand Mornings

Take a break

Pause

Use those few seconds when you find yourself willing or even desiring just to take a break from the daily grind to observe your mind rather than drifting off into daydreams. Practicing like this, “one drip at a time,” you’ll find yourself gradually becoming free of the mental and emotional limitations that are the source of fatigue, disappointment, anger, and despair, and discover within yourself an unlimited source of clarity, wisdom, diligence, peace, and compassion.

Yongey Mingpur RInpoche, The Joy of Living

Which myth we live by

 File:Obilisk and gravestones of the Big Church in Templemore.JPG

It is clear that many things have changed in Ireland in the time I have been abroad, such as the confidence placed in institutional elements such as government, banking and most especially the church. However, we never really get rid of our guiding myths, just simply replace them with others – new populist ideologies, fads and obsessions with fashions and celebrity leaders – which play a similar role.

The crises of the world are not just “out there” in the geopolitical sphere but “in here” in the individual soul. The questions, explanations and great rhythms that once guided the soul by way of living myth are still within us, still guiding our lives. And we are obliged to render this process more conscious lest we live blindly, false to ourselves and false to nature. . . . we must more consciously create our own myth or be enslaved to the myth of another.

James Hollis, Tracking the gods

photo Templemore abbey, Laurel Lodged

A true friend to yourself

hug4

You build inner strength through embracing the totality of your experience, both the delightful parts and the difficult parts. Embracing the totality of your experience is one definition of having loving kindness for yourself. Loving kindness does not mean making sure you’re feeling good all the time – trying to set up your life so that you’re comfortable every moment. Rather, it means setting up your life so that you have time for meditation and self-reflection, for kindhearted, compassionate self-honesty. In this way you become more attuned to seeing when you’re biting the hook, when you’re getting caught in the undertow of emotions, when you’re grasping and when you’re letting go. This is the way you become a true friend to yourself just as you are, with both your laziness and your bravery. There is no step more important than this.

Pema Chödron

The role of confusion

File:WinterFog.jpg

Dull and misty morning in Ireland today, obscuring the landscape and making things that were visible yesterday seem less clear.  A good metaphor for how our inner life can seem at times.

Confusion is seen as a mistake, even a madness.

In truth, our potential for psychological growth reveals itself in moments of disruption.

The gift of confusion must be honored to clear a space in your life for something new to claim you.

Jerry Ruhl, Director,  Jung Center, Houston

photo of fog in the Wicklow mountains by sarah777