Tag: Be fully present

Unbecoming

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We take ourselves so seriously- our opinions, our achievements, our failures -as if they were monumental, eternal things. But really, they’re just fleeting conditions, like bubbles in a glass of soda. Pop! And they’re gone.

The ego wants to be somebody special, to be remembered, to leave a mark. But the Dhamma isn’t about becoming – it’s about unbecoming. It’s about letting go of the illusion that you’re this grand, separate self. When you see through that, life becomes playful.

The Buddha’s enlightenment wasn’t some solemn, pompous event. It was the ultimate release – from all the heaviness of self. So why cling to your burdens? Why not lighten up?”

 Ajahn Sumedho, The Sound of Silence

Trust the process

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The way to do is to be.

“Wu wei” means doing by not overdoing. It’s the wisdom of the gardener who nurtures growth without yanking on the plants. It’s the skill of the carpenter who follows the grain instead of forcing the wood. It’s the patience of the cook who lets the soup simmer, knowing interference will only spoil the broth.

In our lives, wu wei is the art of trusting the process – not laziness, but the hardest work of all: getting yourself out of the way

Ursula K. Le Guin, Lao Tzu: Tao Te Ching – A Book About the Way and the Power of the Way

Sunday Quote: release

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True freedom is not about controlling the world around you; it’s about releasing your reactions to it.

When you stop fighting this moment, you realize it was never your enemy.

Michael Singer, Living Untethered

not in the future

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I wish to draw attention to the following problem:

the idea of happiness presupposes that at present we are unhappy.

Kosho Uchiyama Roshi, Sōtō Zen monk, 1812 – 1998

the most important

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In an age of speed, I began to think, nothing could be more invigorating than going slow.

In an age of distraction, nothing could feel more luxurious than paying attention.

And in an age of constant movement, nothing is more urgent than sitting still.


Pico Iyer, The Art of Stillness

a reminder for the new month

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Just as a mirror remains clear and undisturbed regardless of the reflections it holds, so awareness remains pure and unaffected by the ever-changing flow of thoughts, sensations, and perceptions.

To seek happiness in experience is to overlook the happiness that we are – the peace of our own being, prior to all objects.

Rupert Spira, You Are the Happiness You Seek