awareness

Suffering does not belong to awareness; it belongs only to the illusory separate self.

When a thought or feeling appears and we say, ‘This is my sadness,’ we have already misidentified awareness as a person who owns an experience.

But awareness itself is free of suffering – it is like the sky that remains untouched by the storm clouds passing through it.

To abide as awareness is to be free of suffering, not because suffering is denied, but because it is no longer claimed as ‘mine‘

Rupert Spira, Being Aware of Being Aware 

a decision

I’m a big proponent of “busy is a decision.”

You decide what you want to do and the things that are important to you.

And you don’t find the time to do things – you make the time to do things. And if you aren’t doing them because you’re “too busy,” it’s likely not as much of a priority as what you’re actually doing.

Debbie Milman, radio show host and author

Sunday Quote: stop

When you stop trying to achieve,

you discover what has always been there.


Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche

A poem for those who struggle

When you are in darkness, feeling pitiful or alone,

remember you are blessed with a soul

that is more receptive to the Spirit

and closer to love, joy and peace

than you were when life seemed grand.

This is what “blessed are the poor in Spirit”

means.

Meister Eckhart

Go easy

Was walking in the woods over the long weekend with an awareness of the Japanese term komorebi – the flickering of sunlight filtering through the leaves, ever changing. We can learn life lessons here:

When I am among the trees….
they give off such hints of gladness.
I would almost say that they save me, and daily.

I am so distant from the hope of myself,
in which I have goodness, and discernment,
and never hurry through the world
but walk slowly, and bow often.

Around me the trees stir in their leaves
and call out, “Stay awhile.”
The light flows from their branches.

And they call again, “It’s simple,” they say,
“and you too have come
into the world to do this, to go easy, to be filled
with light, and to shine.”

Mary Oliver, When I am Among the Trees

Allowing ourselves to rest

A Bank Holiday in Ireland. One of the nicest images to use when sitting

Suppose someone is holding a pebble and throws it in the air and the pebble begins to fall down into a river. After the pebble touches the surface of the water, it allows itself to sink slowly into the river. It will reach the bed of the river without any effort. Once the pebble is at the bottom of the river, it continues to rest. It allows the water to pass by.

I think the pebble reaches the bed of the river by the shortest path because it allows itself to fall without making any effort. During our sitting meditation we can allow ourselves to rest like a pebble. We can allow ourselves to sink naturally without effort to the position of sitting, the position of resting.

Resting is a very important practice; we have to learn the art of resting. Resting is the first part of Buddhist meditation. You should allow your body and your mind to rest. Our mind as well as our body needs to rest. The problem is that not many of us know how to allow our body and mind to rest. We are always struggling; struggling has become a kind of habit. We cannot resist being active, struggling all the time. We struggle even during our sleep.

It is very important to realize that we have the habit energy of struggling. We have to be able to recognize a habit when it manifests itself because if we know how to recognize our habit, it will lose its energy and will not be able to push us anymore.

Thich Nhat Hanh