Ordinary and more

Mindfulness helps you fall in love with the ordinary

Thich Nhat Hahn 

The chickens leave the coop

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Feelings arise within the state of calm. The mind is experiencing feelings and calm at the same time, without being disturbed. When there is calm like this, there are no harmful consequences. Problems occur when the chicken gets out of the coop.  For instance you may be watching the breath entering and leaving and then forget yourself, allowing the mind to wander away from the breath, back home, off to the shops or any number of different places. Perhaps even a half hour may pass before you suddenly realize that you’re supposes to be practicing meditation and you reprimand yourself for your lack of mindfulness. This is where you have to be really careful because this is where the chicken gets out of the coop – the mind leaves its base of calm.

Ajahn Chah, What’s What

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Giving life to life

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We are paying full attention when there is nothing between us and the task at hand. If you are facing a sink full of dirty dishes and the mind is taken up with aversion to the task, impatience with how long it is taking, thinking about what movie you’re going to see that night, you are separated from what you are doing. The hands are washing but the mind is not. To be divided this way is to be less than fully alive. Giving our whole body and mind over to a task being undivided and intimate in your action is what the Chinese masters called giving life to life

Larry Rosenberg, Breath by Breath

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Two possible directions for today…..and this week

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I’ve discovered there are only two modes of the heart.

We can struggle, or we can surrender. Surrender means wisely accommodating ourselves to what is beyond our control. Getting old, being sick,  losing what is dear to us,  life’s unsatisfactoriness – all are beyond our control.

I can either be frightened of life and mad at life –  or not.

Sylvia Boorstein

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Refreshing our energy

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Often we can find that our body tenses up at moments of transition, such as Sunday evenings, or  in the anticipation of something which will happen tomorrow or in a few days. This can even affect our sleep as the mind switches into problem-solving mode,  and works on resolving what is perceives as a type of “danger”. We can easily become agitated, and there is a sense in which our spirit gets jittery, or in a type of “flux”.  As the poet does here, this is precisely the time we need to create some space  – maybe in meditation or getting out in nature – which will “hold us”,  allowing us to become calm again. In this way the power of tomorrow over our spirit today is weakened.

It is time now, I said,
For the deepening and quieting of the spirit
Among the flux of happenings.

Something had pestered me so much
I thought my heart would break.
I mean the mechanical part.

I went down in the afternoon
To the sea
Which held me, until I grew easy.

About tomorrow, who knows anything.
Except that it will be a time, again,
For the deepening and the quieting of the spirit.

Mary Oliver, Swimming, One Day in August

Photo: Glendalough on a soft day, April 5th 2014

Sunday Quote: Staying close to our roots

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At any moment you have a choice

that either leads you closer to your spirit

or further away from it

Thich Nhat Hanh