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Saturday winding down

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The first condition [required] is peace and calm; without that, it’s very difficult to see anything. That’s why a lot of our practice is actually to bring the heart to a state of balance and calm. Most people are in a constant state of reactivity. But someone who has seen the suffering of reactivity calmly comes to realize that it’s not the best way to relate to life; it is very limited – always the experience of ‘Self’, ‘Me’ and ‘You’. But as the sense of ‘Self’ decreases, the reactivity decreases also. It’s not so much the sense of Self that is the obstacle, its our identification with it.

Ajahn Sundara, Simplicity

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Out of touch with ourselves

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With our cell phones and PDA’s we are now able to be in touch with anyone and everyone at any time.

In the process, we run the risk of never being in touch with ourselves.

Jon Kabat Zinn

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Simplifying our activities

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Mindfulness meditation helps us work against the fragmentation which is a by-product of the modern world, with its speed, constant demands, and  abundance of stimuli. We practice in slowing down and simplifying life in order to be able to savour it more deeply. We drop into a natural goodness by letting go of the chatter of the mind and judgmental thoughts.

Sitting [in meditation] is essentially simplifying space. Our daily lives are in constant movement: lots of things going on, lots of people talking, lots of events taking place. In the middle of that, it’s very difficult to sense what we are in our life. When we simplify the situation, when we take away the externals and remove ourselves from the ringing phone, the television, the people who visit us, the dog who needs a walk, we get a chance to face ourselves.

Charlotte Joko Beck

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Taking the leap

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As I sit at my computer in the South of Kildare this morning and look out my window,  I see low clouds, a grey landscape,  somewhat wet and windy. By constrast, yesterday was a lovely sunny day, which I find normally prompts me to see things in an open,  uncomplicated way.  The immediate reactive effects of the low clouds are less positive. It is interesting to notice the effects of these different changing conditions on our mood and our motivation. one opening us up, the other closing things down. When we are not completely open or when we are under pressure we can have negative or doubting chatter in the background of our minds, sometimes without noticing. One of the effects of mindfulness training is to allow us spot our habitual reactions and see them for what they are, types of mental energy that pass through, which we can hook into or not.

Whatever you’re meant to do, do it now.

The conditions are always impossible.

Doris Lessing

Letting the mind settle

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Muddy water is best cleared by leaving it alone

Alan Watts

Everyday hassles

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The subtle suffering in our lives may seem unimportant. But if we attend to the small ways that we suffer, we create a context of greater ease, peace, and responsibility, which can make it easier to deal with the bigger difficulties when they arise.

Gil Fronsdal, Living Two Traditions