If you don’t break your ropes
while you’re alive,
do you think ghosts will do it after?
Kabir
photo: maizeam
If you don’t break your ropes
while you’re alive,
do you think ghosts will do it after?
Kabir
photo: maizeam
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‘Compassion’, when literally translated, means ‘ suffering with others’ and ‘with’ is the most important word, because it implies belonging. ‘Companion’ is ‘one who travels with another’. So in this relationship there is no guide, there is no healer and no one healed; we simply accompany one another.
As we inquire into the heart of service, we see a pattern: common to all habits that hinder us in our work is a sense of separateness; and common to all those moments and actions that truly seem to serve is the experience of unity. As my friend Reb Anderson says, “We are simply walking through birth and death holding hands.”
Frank Ostaseski
photo takato marui

Those who are willing to be vulnerable
move among mysteries
Theodore Roethke, American Poet, Straw for the Fire
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Maybe you are searching among the branches
for what only appears in the roots
Rumi
photo evelyn simak
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These last few months I have come to see more and more how some sense of longing seems to be a part and parcel of human nature, and will never go away. It comes from the fact, as John O’Donohue wrote in Anam Chara, that the human person is a “threshold where many infinities meet”. This can explain why, for many of us, a sense of wonder can exist in a world which is finite:
The human being is an in-between presence, belonging neither fully to the earth from which she has come, nor to the heavens toward which her mind and spirit aim….The creator of the universe loves circles: time and space are circles, the day is a circle, the year is a circle, the earth is a circle. But when creating and fashioning the human heart, the creator only created a half-circle, so that there is something ontologically unfinished in human nature. That is why you can’t enter your own life or inhabit your full presence without a vital and real relationship with some other person.
John O Donohue, The Presence of Compassion
photo hedera baltica
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Become aware of impatience as it arises during the day. Be aware of the signals in the body (tapping fingers) and the talk in the mind (“Hurry up!”) that accompany impatience. Ask yourself, “Why am I in a rush? What do I want to rush ahead to get to?” See what answers arise.
Jan Chozen Bays, How to train a Wild Elephant
photo david pickersgill