The value of waiting

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Waiting is not a very popular attitude. Waiting is not something that people think about with great sympathy. In fact, most people consider waiting a waste of time. Perhaps this is because the culture in which we live is basically saying, “Get going! Do something! Show you are able to make a difference! Don’t just sit there and wait!” For many people, waiting is an awful desert between where they are and where they want to go. And people do not like such a place. They want to get out of it by doing something…

Most of us think of waiting as something very passive, a hopeless state determined by events totally out of our hands…But there is none of this passivity in scripture. Those who are waiting are waiting very actively. They know that what they are waiting for is growing from the ground on which they are standing…Active waiting means to be present fully to the moment, in the conviction that something is happening where you are and that you want to be present to it… Waiting is essential to the spiritual life.

Henri Nouwen, Waiting for God

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The way we grow

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The paradox is indeed that new life is born

out of the pains of the old.

Henri Nouwen, Reaching Out.

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How we work with loss

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Loss is a fact of life. Impermanence is everywhere we look. We lose loved ones. We lose our health. We lose our glasses. We lose our memory. We lose our money. We lose our keys. We lose our socks. We have to come to terms with this reality. How we deal with them is what makes all the difference. For it is not what happens to us that determines our character, but how we relate to what happens.

Lama Surya Das, Working with Loss

Right here, right now

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It [our way] is never apart from this very place;

what is the use of traveling around to practice?

Dogen,   General Advice on the Principles of Zazen

The full moon

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Prompted by seeing a beautiful (almost) full moon in the clear Kildare sky last evening:

At night, deep in the mountains

I sit in meditation

The affairs of men never reach here

Everything is quiet and empty

The incense has been swallowed up

by the endless night;

My robe has become a garment of  dew.

Unable to sleep, I walk into the woods;

Suddenly, above the highest peak,

the full moon appears.

Ryokan, Zen Buddhist monk,  1758 – 1831

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Each moment

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Two quotes from Emerson on surprise and wonder to prompt us to look with fresh eyes today :

In liberated moments, we know that a new picture of life is already possible

The one thing which we seek with insatiable desire, is to forget ourselves, to be surprised out of our propriety, to lose our sempiternal memory and to do something without knowing how or why; in short, to draw a new circle.

Ralph Waldo Emerson, Circles

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