Sunday Quote: Control and non-control

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A flower falls, even though we love it;

a weed grows, even though we do not love it.

Dogen

photo:  pixie from he

Conditions for Growth

gentle
The potential space between baby and mother, between child and family, between the individual and society and the world, depends on experience which leads to trust.  It can be looked upon as sacred to the individual, in that it is here that the individual experiences creative living.
Winnicott, Playing and Reality

Releasing fixed identities

Loving another person

Being kind is a simple practice, but it is also a transforming practice,

because as we continue, the conceptual boundary between “us” and “them” begins to melt

Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche

In whatever circumstances

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La joie réside au plus intime de l’âme; on peut aussi bien la posséder dans une obscure prison que dans un palais.

(Joy dwells in the deepest part of the soul; one can have it in an obscure prison just as much as in a palace)

St Therese of Lisieux

photo of the former prison in Annecy by Emmanuel Boutet

…even with contradictions

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It is easy enough to see that all through our lives we are faced with the task of reconciling opposites

which, in logical thought, cannot be reconciled

E.F. Schumacher, Small is Beautiful

photo: pjposullivan

Limits to our thought

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For there is a boundary to looking.

And the world that is looked at so deeply

wants to flourish in love.

Work for the eye is done, now

go and do heart-work

on all the images imprisoned within you.

Rilke

photo llias81