Holding things and oneself lightly

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The practice of mindfulness has as its overall goal the reduction of suffering and an increase in fullness in the totality of our lives. But in order for us to see the actual benefits now, whether here in Ireland or wherever you are reading this,  we need to practice it with the big and small moments of each day. This profound text indicates one way we do this. Mindfulness has a quality of not wobbling in the face of the different winds that blow us, the difficulties and changes which we face in our day-to-day living. Persistent practice allows us to hold ourselves more lightly, and not be as strongly fused with the story we maintain about how our lives should be or how certain moments in the day should go. One way of saying this is that we are not as attached, or not clinging, to outcomes, or to some fixed aspects of our identity. In this way changes and unexpected turnings do not bring the same dismay as once they did:

How do we arrive at non-agitation through non-clinging?

When the instructed person does not regard form with these words: “This is mine, this I am, this is my self.”

The form of his changes and alters,

but with the change and alteration of form,

sorrow, lamentation, pain, displeasure and despair do not arise.

The Buddha, S 22.8
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If you are attentive

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The present moment is filled with joy and happiness.

If you are attentive, you will see it.

Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Step

 

Grounded

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Our bodies know they belong,
It’s our minds that make our lives so homeless.

John O’Donohue

An active state

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People of our time are losing the power of celebration. Instead of celebrating we seek to be amused or entertained. Celebration is an active state, an act of expressing reverence or appreciation. To be entertained is a passive state – it is to receive pleasure afforded by an amusing act or a spectacle…. Celebration is a confrontation, giving attention to the transcendent meaning of one’s actions.

Abraham Heschel

…or failing to notice

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The range of what we think and do is limited by what we fail to notice.

And because we fail to notice that we fail to notice there is little we can do to change

until we notice how failing to notice shapes our thoughts and deeds.

R.D. Laing

Just being fully present

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Here it is – right now.

Start thinking about it and you miss it.

Huang Po, Chinese Zen Master,  died 850