The fundamental prejudice is some form of “This shouldn’t be happening”. This rejection of circumstances can be anything from “He shouldn’t have left me” to “Nobody loves me” to “I’m doomed. Even meditation doesn’t work for me”….. Eventually we just start to accept. Not only do we not dislike our circumstances, we don’t dislike our own states of mind, which is the key thing. We begin to think,  “Fortunately I don’t get it yet”. And if we forgive life for not being what we told it to be, or expected, or wished, or longed for it to be, we forgive ourselves for not being what we might have been also. And then we can be what we are, which is boundless.

John Tarrant, No. Nay. Never.