Inside not beyond

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The most heartbreaking thing is not heartbreak; it’s avoiding heartbreak. Inside the transience of life is the thusness of everything, of the tree with forty crows on it in the winter, the sound of death-metal drums from the kids in the barn, and the feeling of sadness when you lose someone. A lot of suffering is resistance to the life of feeling. If you surrender, you are surrendering to what is really going on. This is just to notice that nothing beyond your life is more important than your life.

John Tarrant, Surprises on the Way

Other places

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I will always have fears,

but I need not be my fears—

for I have other places in  my inner landscape

from which I can speak and act

Parker Palmer

photo of morning sun at Portmarnock, Co. Dublin

Sunday quote: A Wide heart

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But I always think that the best way to know God

is to love many things

Vincent van Gogh

with thanks to Nicolas for the photo

Living with our fears

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A quote from the –  always thought-provoking – teaching of Thich Nhat Hanh,  who is in hospital having suffered a brain hemorrhage a few days ago,  in response to the request from his community for our thoughts and support. It suggests a way of working with whatever frightens us – illness, not knowing, demands in work and life that seem too challenging, our own sense of not being good enough:

The first part of looking at our fear is just inviting it into our awareness without judgment. We just acknowledge gently that it is there. This brings a lot of relief already. Then, once our fear has calmed down, we can embrace it tenderly and look deeply into its roots, its sources. Understanding the origins of our anxieties and fears will help us let go of them. Is our fear coming from something that is happening right now or is it an old fear, a fear from when we were small that we’ve kept inside? When we practice inviting all our fears up, we become aware that we are still alive, that we still have many things to treasure and enjoy. If we are not pushing down and managing our fear, we can enjoy the sunshine, the fog, the air, and the water. If you can look deep into your fear and have a clear vision of it, then you really can live a life that is worthwhile.

photo oyvind holmstad


New and unique

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No Moment is the same as any other. Each is unique and contains unique possibilities.
Beginners mind reminds us this simple truth.

The next time you are seeing someone who is familiar to you, ask yourself if you are seeing this person with fresh eyes, as she or he really is,
or if you are seeing only the reflection of your own thoughts about this person

Jon Kabat Zinn,  Full Catastrophe LIving

photo EEIM

Always waiting for something to slot into place

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Always our rationalization is the same –“Once this situation is remedied, then I will be happy.

But it never works that way in reality: The goal is achieved, but the person who reaches it is not the same person who dreamed it.

The goal was static, but the person’s identity was dynamic.

Philip Moffitt

photo twilightsojourn