Ideals exist in the mind, with absolutes of right and wrong, which tend to give us a sense of striving, of not being good enough On the contrary, once we touch into the heart faculty, we connect more with the actual here and now and let go of the need to be prefect and certain. This brings about a deeper sense of balance and groundedness:
Living is a form of not being sure, not knowing what next or how.
The moment you know how, you begin to die a little.
Agnes George de Mille, American dancer and Choreographer.
Mindfulbalance 
Please tell me you spelled “perfect” wrong intentionally. It makes the post that much more beautiful.
Hiya,
I will pretend that I did so, in order to be more relaxed at a less than “perfect” post. But no, just “bad” spelling. I like it and will leave it in….
Thanks for noticing, and for visiting, Karl