Ideals exist in the mind, with absolutes of right and wrong, which tend to give us a sense of striving, of not being good enough On the contrary, once we touch into the heart faculty, we connect more with the actual here and now and let go of the need to be prefect and certain. This brings about a deeper sense of balance and groundedness:
Living is a form of not being sure, not knowing what next or how.
The moment you know how, you begin to die a little.
Agnes George de Mille, American dancer and Choreographer.