Some ideas to counter the frequent thought that our life would be better if only this or that happened, or indeed, if this or that had not happened to us.

No creature ever falls short of its own completion.

Wherever it stands it does not fail to cover the ground

Dogen, 1200 – 1253, Buddhist thinker,  founder of the Sōtō school of Zen

I will give thanks to you because I have been so amazingly and miraculously made.

Psalm 139: 14