You cannot rely on anything. Things change. OK, so this is where your choices begin. We can’t escape life’s essential problems, but we can change our understanding about them. We can practice reframing, generosity, and gratitude. The evanescence of things is the real reason you enjoy your life
Lewis Richmond, Aging as a Spiritual Practice: A Contemplative Guide to Growing Older and Wiser
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This looks like a good book; will get from the library! Turning 65 soon, and I’d like a little wisdom for this part of the journey. Thank you!