To live is the rarest thing in the world.
Most people exist, that is all.
Oscar Wilde
Sunday Quote: to live
Month: August 2024
A change
Awakening does not mean a change in difficulty,
it means a change in how those difficulties are met.
Mark Epstein, The Trauma of Everyday life
Fixed expectations
Your definitions of desirable and undesirable, as well as good and bad, all come about
because you have defined how things need to be, in order for you to be OK
Michael Singer
Magic
The magic that is needed to create or sustain anything is within all of us.
Our magic is unique to us,
and it is not distributed evenly or fairly, but it is within all of us.
Martha Graham, 1894 – 1991, American dancer and choreographer.
Amid the mess
What if the path to happiness is not
bringing order into the mess of our lives
but instead relaxing amid the mess
and rejoicing in its aliveness and beauty
Haemin Sunim, Korean Zen Buddhist Teacher, When Things Don’t go your Way
Claim the joy
This is a real discipline. It requires choosing for the light even when there is much darkness to frighten me, choosing for life even when the forces of death are so visible, and choosing for the truth even when I am surrounded with lies.
The reward of choosing joy is joy itself. Living among people with mental disabilities has convinced me of that. There is so much rejection, pain, and woundedness among us, but once you choose to claim the joy hidden in the midst of all suffering, life becomes celebration. Joy never denies the sadness, but transforms it to a fertile soil for more joy.
Henri Nouwen, The Return of the Prodigal Son
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