June 1st – Acceptance of the natural cycles of life – an awareness that nothing lasts forever gives rise to appreciation of what one has.
.The person who grieves over dead branches will never own a flourishing tree.
To cherish things without clinging – this is the way.
Yoshida Kenkō, poet and Buddhist monk, Essays in Idleness, 1330
Every ending is a beginning,
and by focusing with so much fear on the endings that we face
we are perhaps missing an openness to the idea that there could be some beginnings,
and they might be worth exploring
Moshin Hamid, British Pakistani novelist,
The fundamental nature of mind flows with conditions.
Awakening is only peace.
When there is no obstruction in worldly affairs or principles,
Then birth is non=birth
Mazu Daoyi, Chan Master, 709–788
The Dzogchen tradition likes to use metaphors for non-grasping – effortless – awareness to help us recognize the “vast expanse” of our “natural mind”
Rest loosely,
like a bundle of straw untied.
No tightness, no goal
– just this.
Nyoshul Khenpo Jamyang Dorje, Natural Great Perfection: Dzogchen Teachings and Vajra Songs
Wisdom is the capacity to see things as they are, without the obscurations of fear or desire. It’s not about knowing more but seeing clearly. When I remember that everything changes – pleasure, pain, even my own life = I stop clinging. This isn’t resignation; it’s liberation. The Buddha didn’t say, ‘Life is suffering.’ He said, ‘Clinging to life as if it were solid and permanent is suffering.’ Wisdom is the antidote to that clinging.
Sylvia Boorstein, It’s Easier Than You Think: The Buddhist Way to Happiness
The Eastern tradition frequently encourages flexibility, adaptability, and flowing with the natural order. A Bamboo bending with the wind is a frequent image.
People are born soft and supple;
dead, they are stiff and hard.
Plants are born tender and pliant;
dead, they are brittle and dry.
Thus whoever is stiff and inflexible
is a disciple of death.
Whoever is soft and yielding
is a disciple of life.
The hard and stiff will be broken.
The soft and supple will prevail.
Tao Te Ching, 76
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