Illusions

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Arriving someplace more desirable at some future time is an illusion.

This is it.

Jon Kabat Zinn

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Grounded

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When you run after your thoughts, you are like a dog chasing a stick:

every time a stick is thrown, you run after it.

Instead, be like a lion who, rather than chasing after the stick, turns to face the thrower.

One only throws a stick at a lion once

Milarepa, Tibetan Buddhism, 1052 – 1135

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Focus on the now

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We are endlessly offered into life: all time is ours.
And what any one of us might be worth,
death alone knows – and does not tell.

Rilke, Sonnets to Orpheus, II, 24

Not fixing

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Often, intimacy arises not from any attempt to take the pain away, but from a living through together; not from a working out, but from a being with. Trust and closeness deepen from holding and being held. I am learning, pain by pain and tension by tension, that after all my strategies fail, the strength of love waits in receiving and negotiating; in accepting each other and not problem solving each other; in listening and affirming each other, not trying to fix those we love.

Mark Nepo

Totally there, no division

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When you forget about the good and the non-good, the worldly life and the spiritual life, and all other ideas from teachings, and permit no thoughts relating to them to arise, and you abandon body and mind — then there is complete freedom. When the mind is like wood or stone, there is nothing to be discriminated.

Pai-chang Huai-hai, Chinese Zen Master 720 – 814

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Trusting where we are

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To be nobody-but-yourself

— in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else —

means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.

e.e. cummings, A Poet’s Advice

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