Our way is to practice one step at a time,
one breath at a time,
with no gaining idea
Suzuki Roshi
Category: Be fully present
A place of awareness
We know how to become, but we don’t know how to stop.
We are not used to stopping.
Stopping is the practice of learning how to take the points of when you feel the mind moving and proliferating
and coming back to a place of awareness.
Ajahn Passano , On Becoming and Stopping
A verb not a noun
Describing mindfulness or awareness leads to the wrong attitude.
Terms like ‘wake up’, ‘awakening’ or ‘pay attention’ are not definitions;
they are suggestions to trust in this moment, to be present, to be here and now.
Ajahn Sumedho, Don’t Take Your LIfe Personally.
Why we like speed
Speed in work has compensations. Speed gets noticed. Speed is praised by others. Speed is self-important. Speed absolves us. Speed means we don’t really belong to any particular thing or person we are visiting and thus appears to elevate us above the ground of our labors. When it becomes all-consuming, speed is the ultimate defense, the antidote to stopping and really looking. If we really saw what we were doing and who we had become, we feel we might not survive the stopping and the accompanying self-appraisal. So we don’t stop, and the faster we go, the harder it becomes to stop. We keep moving on whenever any form of true commitment seems to surface.
David Whyte
What gets in the way
Awareness is our true self; it’s who we are. So we don’t have to try to develop awareness; we simply need to notice how we block awareness out with our thoughts, fantasies, opinions and our judgments. We’re either in awareness, which is our natural state, or we’re doing something else.
Charlotte Joko Beck, Nothing Special
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A genuine life
How much of the day are you aware – just basically aware of what life is presenting – rather than being lost in waking sleep, in being identified with whatever you’re doing, almost as if you didn’t exist?How much of your energy is used to fortify a particular self-image, or to simply please others in order to gain approval, instead of devoting your energy to living a genuine life?
Ezra Bayda, At Home in the Muddy Water
