Watching our “add-on’s”

kids cooking partyNo, no! The adventures first, explanations take such a dreadful time.

Lewis Carroll, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland

A famous Zen haiku reads: “The old Pond. A Frog jumps in. Plop”  This is a wonderful description of bare attention. The poet, Basho, goes directly to the essence of his experience: the pond, frog, plop. We can say that in meditation we are developing “plop mind”. We are stripping away everything that is extraneous to our immediate experience and simply being present with what is happening. This is bare attention: direct, essential, non-interfering.

Joseph Goldstein, Bare Attention

The wave and the water

Waves1A wave may seem to have a beginning and end. A wave might be seen as high or low, big or small, different or not different from other waves. These terms  – beginning, ending, high, low, more or less beautiful – they belong to the dimension called historical, but the wave is at the same time the water. Water transcends the form of the wave, the idea of beginning, ending, high, or low. These notions apply to the wave but not to the water. The moment when the wave realizes that she is water, she loses all her fear and she enjoys much more being a wave. She is free from birth and death, being and non-being, high or low, because when we are able to touch our ultimate dimension, we are no longer subjected to fear –  fear of being; fear of non-being; fear of birth; fear of death.

Thich Nhat Hahn

The present and the story about the present

During a long retreat, I had what seemed to me the earthshaking revelation that we cannot be in the present and run our story lines at the same time! It sounds pretty obvious, I know, but when you discover something like this for yourself, it changes you.

Pema Chodron, When Things fall Apart

You will only grab hold of concepts if you follow the storyline.  

Sayadaw U Tejaniya

 

In our hands

choppingGratefulness is the key to a happy life that we hold in our hands,
because if we are not grateful,
then no matter how much we have we will not be happy – because we will always want
to have something else or something more.

Br David Steindl-Rast

Getting or giving?

We continually move in and out of wholeness and fragmentation, in and out of clarity and confusion, and in and out of a largeness of heart and smallness of mind. When whole and clear and large of heart, we seem to be carried along, part of something larger. When fragmented and confused and small of mind, we seem to be tossed about, lost in ways we don’t quite understand. And so we continually search for tools that will free us to be lifted by life’s currents and  not battered by them. One such tool is a frame of mind, an attitude by which we meet the world: it has to do with whether we are giving attention or getting attention. Giving attention steers us back to center, Giving attention is connective. On the other hand, getting attention is a form of drifting from center. If attention comes your way, well, enjoy, but cultivating and seeking it is paddling away from center. Getting attention is deceptively isolating. It ultimately leads to being seen but not held.

Mark Nepo, The Exquisite Risk

Noticing happiness

Thich-nhat-hanh-i-am-home-i-have-arrived_largeTo take an in-breath and  touch the conditions of happiness that are available, is something that all of us can do. Because of that we can stop and establish ourselves in the present moment. That is the teaching of living happily in the present moment. Please train yourself to make the present moment, the here and the now, into your true home. That is the only home that we have. That is the only place where we can touch life. Everything we are looking for must be found in the here and the now.

Thich Nhat Hahn