How to keep going

When the big things feel out of control,

focus on what you love right under your nose.

The Horse in Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse

per Laura V…

Weather

After a period of unusually warm weather in Ireland, we now have wind and rain. Change and what doesn’t change….

My real dwelling

Has no pillars

and no roof either.

So the rain cannot soak it

And the wind cannot blow it down!

Ikkyu, 1394–1481, Japanese Zen Buddhist monk and poet

Air

All you can do for another person

is be an environment in which if they wanted to come up for air,

they could.

Ram Dass

Living our lives

Our suffering survives because we enable and feed it. We ruminate on suffering, regret, and sorrow. We chew on them, swallow them, bring them back up, and eat them again and again. If we’re feeding our suffering while we’re walking, working, eating, or talking, we are making ourselves victims of the ghosts of the past, of the future, or our worries in the present.

We’re not living our lives.

Thich Nhat Hahn

As we go along

No one imagines that a symphony is supposed to improve as it goes along, or that the whole object of playing is to reach the finale. The point of music is discovered in every moment of playing and listening to it. It is the same, I feel, with the greater part of our lives, and if we are unduly absorbed in improving them we may forget altogether to live them.

Alan Watts, This is it

The true cause of suffering

That’s basically the instruction that Dzigar Kongtrul gave me. And now I pass it on to you. Instead of blaming our discomfort on outer circumstances or on our own weakness, we can choose to stay present and awake to our experience, not rejecting it, not grasping it, not buying the stories that we relentlessly tell ourselves. This is priceless advice that addresses the true cause of suffering – yours, mine and that of all living beings.

Pema Chodron, Taking The Leap