not by accumulation

Usually we think that if we have a lot of things, we will be happy.

But actually, when we do not want anything, we are truly happy.

Shunyru Suzuki Roshi, Not Always So

The way we travel

Human beings do not find their essence through fulfillment or eventual arrival,

but by staying close to the way they like to travel,

to the way they hold the conversation between the ground on which they stand and the horizon to which they go.

We are, in effect, always close to the ultimate secret:

that we are more real in our simple wish to find a way than any destination we could reach

David Whyte, Consolations

Life is too short

My motto for this week

Stop giving your precious energy

to things that make you feel bad.

Louise Hay

When you feel stuck

Ishi no ue ni mo sannen (石の上にも三年) Well known Japanese Proverb

Literal meaning: “Three years on a stone.”

Its wisdom is deceptively simple: patience transforms even the toughest challenges. Sit on a cold stone long enough, and eventually it will grow warm. Similarly, sometimes the breakthrough occurs not through intensity but through continuity.

Trust

You know that the flower bends

when the wind wants it to,

and you must become like that

that is, filled with deep trust

Rilke, Early Journals

Come and Go

Shifting the nervous system from fusion to observation.

Boredom, anger, sadness, or fear are not ‘yours,’ not personal.

They are conditions of the human mind.

They come and go.

Nothing that comes and goes is you.

Eckhart Tolle