Letting change happen

I settled at Cold Mountain a while ago, already it seems like years and years.

Freely drifting, I wander the woods and streams
And sit there, watching things themselves; I am satisfied.
Not many come this far into the mountains,
White clouds sometimes touch and pass, thin grass does for a mattress,
The blue sky makes a good cover, a stone under my head.
I am happy

I’ll let heaven and earth go about their changes.

Han Shan, Cold Mountain, poem 12

Hold firm

No matter how difficult a state of mind you may find yourself in,

if you hold firm,

eventually the floating clouds will vanish

and the withering wind must cease

Dogen

Fixed expectations

Your definitions of desirable and undesirable, as well as good and bad, all come about

because you have defined how things need to be, in order for you to be OK

Michael Singer

Magic

The magic that is needed to create or sustain anything is within all of us.

Our magic is unique to us,

and it is not distributed evenly or fairly, but it is within all of us.

Martha Graham, 1894 – 1991, American dancer and choreographer.

Amid the mess

What if the path to happiness is not

bringing order into the mess of our lives

but instead relaxing amid the mess

and rejoicing in its aliveness and beauty

Haemin Sunim, Korean Zen Buddhist Teacher, When Things Don’t go your Way

Claim the joy

This is a real discipline. It requires choosing for the light even when there is much darkness to frighten me, choosing for life even when the forces of death are so visible, and choosing for the truth even when I am surrounded with lies.

The reward of choosing joy is joy itself. Living among people with mental disabilities has convinced me of that. There is so much rejection, pain, and woundedness among us, but once you choose to claim the joy hidden in the midst of all suffering, life becomes celebration. Joy never denies the sadness, but transforms it to a fertile soil for more joy.

Henri Nouwen, The Return of the Prodigal Son