Sunday Quote: Love and Suffering

Perhaps we migrate between love and suffering.

Oh praise the soul’s migration.

I fall. I get up. I run from you. I look for you.

I am again in love with the world.

Mark Nepo, In love with the World

A moment

This morning
the beautiful white heron
was floating along above the water

and then into the sky of this
the one world
we all belong to

where everything
sooner or later
is a part of everything else

which thought made me feel
for a little while
quite beautiful myself.

Mary Oliver, Poem of the One World

When we identify

The important thing is not to know who “I” is or what “I” is.  You’ll never succeed.  There are no words for it.  The important thing is to drop the labels. As the Japanese Zen masters say, “Don’t seek the truth; just drop your opinions.” If you drop your labels, you would know. What do I mean by labels? Every label you can conceive of except perhaps that of  human being. I am a human being. Fair enough; doesn’t say very much.

But when you say, “I am successful,” that’s crazy. Success is not part of the “I”. Success is something that comes and goes; it could be here today and gone tomorrow. That’s not “I”.  When you said, “I was a success,” you were in error; you were plunged into darkness. You identified yourself with success. The same thing when you said, “I am a failure, a lawyer, a businessman.” You know what’s going to happen to you if you identify yourself with these things. You’re going to cling to them, you’re going to be worried that they may fall apart, and that’s where your suffering comes in.

 Suffering is given to you that you might open your eyes to the truth, that you might understand that there’s falsehood somewhere, just as physical pain is given to you so you will understand that there is disease or illness somewhere.

Anthony de Mello sj, Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality

An inner evolution

Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go…

The notion of the journey as a harbinger of resolution was once an essential element of the religious pilgrimage, defined as an excursion through the outer world undertaken in an effort to promote and reinforce an inner evolution. 

Alain de Botton, A Week at the Airport 

Remember

Remember that at any given moment there are a thousand things you can love.

David Levithan, 1972 – American author and editor.

Sunday Quote: How

How you stand here is important.

How you
listen for the next things to happen.

How you breathe.

William Stafford, Being A person [extract]