As yesterday morning’s post stated, we can find that we pass through periods which don’t fit our picture of how we want our life to be. Or we can find that some things don’t go exactly as we would like. These words of the Irish writer, Samuel Beckett, can help at such times and show a deep understanding of the gentleness and non-judmental attitude we need to take towards ourselves in meditation and in life. The key in both is simply starting over, without letting judgmental or self-critical thoughts take over. We like to imagine that we can have a mind without fault, but mostly this is not possible. We imagine we will someday have a perfect personality, but again this is unlikely to last long. So our main work is cultivating self-compassion and not dwelling too long on critical stories about ourselves.
Ever tried. Ever failed.
No matter.
Try Again. Fail again.
Fail better
Samuel Beckett, Worstward Ho
Thanks so much for this insight – and for sharing those powerful words from Samuel Beckett. These same concepts (learning from set backs) apply in a work setting – just blogged about that same topic a few weeks back:
http://rogiercommunications.blogspot.com/2011/10/in-work-in-life-fail-faster-succeed.html
‘Fail better.’ Have never thought of it like that!