When you feel stuck

Ishi no ue ni mo sannen (石の上にも三年) Well known Japanese Proverb

Literal meaning: “Three years on a stone.”

Its wisdom is deceptively simple: patience transforms even the toughest challenges. Sit on a cold stone long enough, and eventually it will grow warm. Similarly, sometimes the breakthrough occurs not through intensity but through continuity.

thinking shifts

We cannot always control events, but we author the meaning assigned to them

I do not fix problems

I fix my thinking.

Then problems fix themselves.

Louise Hay

The real cause of problems is not life itself.

Its the commotion the mind makes about life that really cause problems

Michael A.Singer, The Untethered Soul

Trust

You know that the flower bends

when the wind wants it to,

and you must become like that

that is, filled with deep trust

Rilke, Early Journals

no matter how dark

No matter how dire the circumstances, we can have confidence in life’s flow and in our own deep seated goodness.

No matter how dark,

the hand always knows the way to the mouth. 

Saying of the Idoma ethnic group, Nigeria.

Come and Go

Shifting the nervous system from fusion to observation.

Boredom, anger, sadness, or fear are not ‘yours,’ not personal.

They are conditions of the human mind.

They come and go.

Nothing that comes and goes is you.

Eckhart Tolle

Sunday Quote: Notice

We usually dont look,

we overlook

Alan Watts