Autumn work

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A brief moment of reflection and gratitude. The blog started its sixth year this week. We recently passed 300,000 visits and over 1500 people who follow each day. As I have said before,  I try to keep it simple –  looking for words or ideas that help mindfulness meditation practice  without me getting in the way too much,  and hoping that they  touch one or two readers in the same way as they help me. Thank you all so much for visiting.  As Autumn deepens, we reflect and move on:

Here in Ireland the Gaelic word for October is Deireadh Fomhair, which means the “last harvesting” of what was planted earlier in the year. The weather system has changed these past few days,  the leaves have started to fall in earnest, and it is clearer to see how Autumn signals a change in energy, a winding-down,  as all of nature – and that includes us – prepares for the different tempo and darker days  of winter. So we can use it as a season to find our balance  between our past and our future,  as our focus naturally turns more inward. We can use it as a time to look back on the work we have done this year, the way we have expended our energy. We can use it to take stock of what we are investing in and harvesting in our lives. Or we can use it to wind down and create space, recognizing the unwise busyness that only creates more anxiety in our minds, keeping us running a lot,  but sometimes just making us feel more empty.

Western laziness consists of cramming our lives with compulsive activity,

so that there is no time at all to confront the real issues.

Sogyal Rinpoche

photo Jeff Borden

An idea for a new month: Give up defining

blowing-leaves

Give up defining yourself – to yourself or to others.

You won’t die. You will come to life. And don’t be concerned with how others define you. When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so it’s their problem. Whenever you interact with people, don’t be there primarily as a function or a role, but as the field of conscious presence. You can only lose something that you have, but you cannot lose something that you are.

Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth

Open for surprises today

bagenalstown

Gorgeous, amazing things come into our lives when we are paying attention: mangoes, grandnieces, Bach, ponds. This happens more often when we have as little expectation as possible. If you say, “Well, that’s pretty much what I thought I’d see,” you are in trouble. At that point you have to ask yourself why you are even here. […] Astonishing material and revelation appear in our lives all the time. Let it be. Unto us, so much is given. We just have to be open for business.

Anne Lamott, Help Thanks Wow: Three Essential Prayers

Early morning on the River Barrow at Bagenalstown, Co. Carlow

Sunday Quote: Where happiness lies

We carry inside us the wonders we seek outside us.

Sir Thomas Browne, 1605 – 1682, Religio Medici 15

photo from judesphotography.wordpress.com

Being nothing for a while

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The weekend allows us place the emphasis on being rather than doing. The mild autumn weather this year allows us do that in the sunshine and under the trees:

The dream of my life

Is to lie down by a slow river

And stare at the light in the trees –

To learn something by being nothing

A little while but the rich

Lens of attention

Mary Oliver, Entering the Kingdom

photo: Lehava activity 2013 Pikiwiki Israel

Blocking ourselves

Shadow Person

Most of us find it easier to extend compassion towards others than towards ourselves and our own mistakes. We can be our own biggest critics which just intensifies our preoccupation with “ourselves” as something fixed and needing to be improved.

Most of the shadows of this life

are caused by standing in one’s own sunshine

Ralph Waldo Emerson